
Back when he was still living in the kampung as a teenager, Ramli Bin Selamat would often get together with a couple of friends for informal jamming sessions.
One would play the guitar, another the kompang (hand drum), and I would sing,
recalls Ramli.
"We weren't professionals, but we had fun making music together."
Now aged 73, the spry retired technician has reprised his love for performing with a group of seniors. Every Wednesday, the group gets together at the Lions Befrienders’ Active Ageing Centre at Block 494E in Tampines for an hour of drumming practice.
Being in their 60s and 70s hasn’t stopped these intrepid silvers from uninhibitedly expressing their inner Ringo Starrs on the Latin and African drums at the centre.
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Ramli, the oldest member of the group and its unofficial leader, plays the djembe (a rope-tuned skin-covered goblet drum played with bare hands).
Another group member, 66-year-old Yeo Djeng Piaw, plays the tubano (a modern invention based on the Latin American conga drum).
These silvers are living proof that you are never too old to pick up a new skill, even drumming, an activity more commonly associated with long-haired, freewheeling rock stars.
None of them had any exposure to drums before, but that did not deter them from signing up last year.
We saw the notice for the eight-week programme and decided to join in,
says Djeng Piaw's wife, 65-year-old Lim Sok Hoon.
"After all, it was free. I told my husband 'let’s just try it out'."
Drumming up interest
The drum programme was actually sponsored by the Tote Board with the intention of testing the cognitive enhancements drumming brings about in seniors, explains Jeanie Neo, Lions Befrienders’ Brand and Strategic Department Manager.
Participants were asked to fill out pre- and post-programme questionnaires, and made to play games to gauge their motor skills.
The seniors found the programme (which was completed in November 2024) enjoyable and easy to follow.
In just four weeks, the group of 14 learnt to play a few songs and were able to make music together. And once the course was over, they decided to continue anyways.
I thought since drumming makes us feel happy, why not form a group and do it regularly?
says Ramli.
The centre supported the group’s wish and managed to retain the instruments to allow them to continue with their practice.
Besides doing it for fun, they also banded together to take part in an internal competition where their rendition of the invigorating Chilli Cha-cha – a popular line dance tune – garnered them the position of first runner-up.
Credit: Lions Befrienders
Playing together has also helped strengthen their teambuilding skills.
Keeping in harmony as a large group can be challenging, requiring concentration and teamwork. But the group, which calls itself Golden Drum, takes that in their stride.
When we make a mistake, we accept it in good spirit. After all, everyone is learning together,
says Djeng Piaw.
When we don't agree, we usually go with the majority.
Ramli chimes in:
In addition, it has also widened their social circles.
Previously, I was staying in Bukit Panjang and didn't really know my neighbours well. But staying in Tampines and coming to the centre regularly has strengthened my relationships with my neighbours,
reveals Ramli's wife, Hamidah Binte Ismail.
The group is very close,
adds the bubbly 67-year-old.
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Beyond the music
Drumming (with a bit of joget thrown in) has injected a renewed zest for life into Golden Drum’s members. He “eats, sleeps, and breathes” drumming, jokes Hamidah about Ramli’s dedication to the craft.
Sometimes I'll be wondering where he is, and he'll be in a corner with his laptop, picking out songs for our classes or making videos of possible routines to present to the group,
she discloses.
Once, I even caught him making drumming movements while he was sleeping,
she chuckles.
He also practises on his kompang a lot.
For the group as a whole, the focus required to keep to the beat and rhythm, and coordinating with team members, has helped improve their memory, coordination, and observation skills. It also takes their minds off everyday problems and worries.
As retirees, we need to keep our minds active. Otherwise, we’ll be caught up in thoughts of the past which can take a negative turn,
says Ramli.
Hitting the drums produces positive energy. It's a form of mental therapy for me,
he adds.
When I play, I'm totally immersed in the music. I like the vibration of the drums. They stir your emotions and encourage you to be more expressive.
Djeng Piaw agrees:
Listening to the tempo and following the rhythm has made the retired engineering project manager and father of two less stressed and more cheerful, he reveals.
Besides personal gains, what keeps the group going is the desire to contribute and give back to society.
That will help build their self-worth,
says Jeanie.
The group had already performed in July and August this year to daycare seniors at the nearby All Saints Home, and they are set to perform again in September and October.
We've picked out a few songs already,
reveals Ramli.
Something more upbeat will go down well,
suggests Jeanie, when Ramli discloses that the seniors felt two of the songs – Rasa Sayang Hey and Chan Mali Chan – he had previously selected were a little too slow-paced.
How do their families feel about their drumming?
My four grandchildren often exclaim, 'Grandma and grandpa are very active',
reveals Ramli.
I look at friends my age – many of them are in wheelchairs,
he muses.
"It reminds me that as a retiree, it's important to keep myself happy and energetic."