When the Covid-19 pandemic arrived in early 2020 and swept across the globe, most of us were shut indoors for months on end with little indication of when we’d be let out again.
Mental health became the talk of the town, especially for the cohort of seniors that aren’t as digitally savvy and therefore less able to adapt to the situation with Zoom calls or chats on social media.
The recent passing of World Mental Health Day on 10 October brings the term to the forefront of public attention once again.
But what does the term ‘mental health’ actually refer to? Does it refer to just the brain and its functioning, or the heart, soul and spirit? Is it even a term that we should be using, given its sporadic use as a pejorative?
Dr Felix Lim, a psychologist with over 25 years of experience in applied clinical and community counselling-based programmes, makes the case for a different term – wellness.
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"I feel the word ‘mental’ has been overused; and, like it or not, it still carries a bit of stigma. ‘Are you mental?’ It was often used as an offensive word, before the drive on mental health issues ever since Covid hit,"
says the registered psychologist, whose academic credentials includes a Doctor of Philosophy and a Master of Arts (Applied Psychology).
"Now take the word ‘well’. When you’re asking someone about how they are, you say ‘Are you well?’ It’s an expression that is very benign, very non-confrontational,"
he adds.
"We should replace the word mental with this instead. Hence, we start by asking ‘Are you well today?’"
The definition of wellness
The only issue, says Dr Lim, is that wellness is a poorly defined concept, differing depending on who you ask.
"Academics, researchers and laypeople might all have a different interpretation of the term. Having been directly involved in wellness actively over the past decade, I have personally begun to think of wellness as the study and applied practice of wellbeing,"
he says.
"Wellness involves research, like any other field. It is a study, you have to study it, and then you have to apply it. If you don’t apply it in practice, you are not going to get the benefits. Just the knowledge without the practice gets you nowhere,"
he adds.
Outcomes are key
That is why he believes that an “integrative and collaborative stance” by various disciplines involved in the wellness industry is necessary – not just to develop the study of wellness, but the techniques that make up the applied practice of the field.
"This allows various practitioners to evolve into a community of wellness. If no one is sharing how their practice actually helps people, everyone will be doing their own thing. Tangible outcomes only happen when a community is formed,"
he says.
Wellness in every facet of being
These outcomes, a result of multidisciplinary wellness techniques, will also present in four multifaceted aspects of being: Heart, mind, soul, and spirit.
"Ancient philosophers – whether it’s from ancient Egypt or the Greeks – often talk about the heart as the seat of the emotions. They would focus on the issues of the heart when talking about wellness and well-being, along with issues of the human spirit,"
he says.
"The reason I bring this up is this – people tend to use these terms very loosely. Religious people bring in talk about your soul and your spirit, and what happens when you die. Although you can say it is religious, isn’t it part of your wellbeing? "
"The heart, soul, mind and spirit are all interconnected and part and parcel of your wellbeing. It is my belief that they are components to wellness, which in turn can affect your physical body,"
adds Dr Lim.
He brings up the anecdote of his late brother – a highly successful banker who was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (better known as ALS), a type of degenerative motor neuron disease, at the peak of his career.
"He degenerated bit by bit over five years. He went from a commanding position of being responsible for 2,000 staff, to not being able to speak or move his fingers. You can see how frustrating that can be. The reason I bring this up is that the disease is autoimmune in nature. The mechanistic pathways for the disease are not certain. My family believes that it was stress-induced – a manifestation of the cumulative stress that he’d built up by the time he hit the middle of his life,"
says Dr Lim.
"The more I think about it, the more I believe that it was due to how the mind affects the body, just as the body affects the mind. We’re dealing with something quite abstract, but we need to understand these terms and how each component can affect our wellness and wellbeing. That’s something that I’ve dedicated myself to for the last decade,"
he concludes.
Dr Felix Lim will be giving a talk at SilverStreak Social, SilverStreak’s first social event for its readers. The event will be held at AIBI Maxwell on 28 October, 3pm to 7pm. Dr Lim’s talk will last from 4pm to 4.30pm.