The silver generation doesn’t want to be kept apart from society. It wants to be a part of society. An integral part.
It’s a generation that has put in the time and effort to help build the country and Singapore’s international reputation. And it will continue the work, provided it’s allowed to do so and not shielded from realising its full potential.
The silver generation doesn’t necessarily want to be treated deferentially or differently, to the point of being excluded from opportunities. It would like to be engaged in the ongoing activities of nation building, but treated with some consideration since physical frailties kick in and mental faculties slow down. But why not allow those who are still keen, to push ahead do so?
No need to sweep almost everyone into the corner with the same brush. Some will fall off, others can push on. That is the case at every level of society. There are those who can make it, and others who will persevere and break through.
This fighting spirit should be part of the ongoing process of an aging society. Society is made up of the young and the old, haves and have nots, and many other extremes and a whole range of variables between.
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Depending on individual capabilities, many silvers are still fully-functioning within society; able to participate and continuing to engage and contribute.
By creating general exceptions and diminishing the worth of this generation, society will only wind up with more lost and aimless souls who will become unplugged and detached from reality. The less purpose you have in life, the less inclined you are to apply your faculties to their fullest.
SilverStreak asked its silver contributors for their opinions on Health Minister Ong Ye Kung’s recent speech about Singapore becoming a super-aged society in 2026, when 21% of the population will be at least 65 years old. It’s not that far away and involves the SilverStreak community directly.
Here are their thoughts.
A Valuable Resource
"We need to reframe our attitude towards aging. As a society, we need to rethink and re-examine the age discrimination that pervades our culture. We need to help seniors reimagine healthier relationships with their older selves.
Why are seniors projected as frail, unhealthy, not tech savvy, “decommissioned” and retired?
Some older adults do need support, but mostly they are the ones providing this support. Seniors make important contributions to the workforce, including paid work as well as volunteering and caregiving. Those contributions to society are a resource, not a luxury."
Why are seniors projected as frail, unhealthy, not tech savvy, “decommissioned” and retired?
Some older adults do need support, but mostly they are the ones providing this support. Seniors make important contributions to the workforce, including paid work as well as volunteering and caregiving. Those contributions to society are a resource, not a luxury."
Monica Alsagoff
What Are The Options?
"If older workers were given better terms — shorter hours and a decent work wage, then more of calibre will consider returning, even if it means picking up a different skill . Would a former corporate man want to flip burgers in a fast-food chain? Often, it is either that or become a security guard. So silvers rather stay home. The issue is attitude . If there can be a positive stance towards seniors in the front line, then more will take up the gauntlet and seek enjoyable employment."
Jasmine Adams
Conditional Concessions
"What I really would like to see is encouraging silvers to travel. So many sign off from travelling saying we are too old to do it. In the West they are given concessions to travel. Here even senior movie concessions are valid on weekdays only. I get that weekends yield better returns from the younger movie goers but why give with conditions.?"
Rani Pillai
Review The Reliefs
"First we have to look at 65 as the new 45-50. These should be the golden years for the silver-haired, not viewed as waiting in God's transit room. You spend time in a polyclinic or heartland coffeeshop or senior citizen centre and it can be a depressing sight. Most aged folk look like they are waiting for their number to be called by The Man Upstairs. Increasingly, in our heartland playgrounds we see each evening a gathering of maids wheeling their charges out for a spot of air. Maybe the government can re-think the rates and levies for helpers so more families can afford helpers for their aged folk."
Sylvia Toh
Celebrate Respect
"I think seniors would also love a little respect especially from the young. In our day we didn't have social media or the internet so the efforts of many seniors who had contributed in one way or another to building the Singapore ethos may be lost. Perhaps a campaign with the slogan "Respect" might help build a positive image of silvers. For example: "I helped rescue a child from the rubble of the Hotel New World collapse. I'm a senior and proud to have played my part."
Leon Pereira
Doing It Together
"Ageing is not for the faint-hearted. We’ve come a long way with true grit. And we’ll thrive on this leg of our journey. Without being entitled. With graciousness. And with a little help from our young friends."
Valerie Valberg-Yeoh