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Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer

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Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer
Meet wheelchair-bound librarian Dennis Kweh. A typical work week for this 62-year-old involves hectic days at the Ang Mo Kio library helping to solve tech problems for library users. After work hours, Dennis tends to the challenges posed by the Heartlands Book Club members who meet for their monthly literary trysts. (He’s kept this club going for over 20 years by the way.)
This achievement is nothing out of the ordinary, except for the fact that Dennis is a paraplegic.
Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer - Heartlands Book Club
Dennis with the Heartlands Book Club, which he founded in 2005.
Credit: Dennis Kweh
He was born with spinal sclerosis (degeneration of the spine) as well as Morquio-Brailsford disease, a rare disease that caused his lungs to shrink. This gene mutation also causes deformity of the spine. All these conditions would have made anyone’s life a challenge. Not for Dennis. He even did a 200-km wheelchair marathon to raise funds for cerebral palsy.
Dennis Kweh’s growing-up years
Dennis was born blind in his left eye and his hearing is also significantly impaired on his left side.
In secondary school, Dennis used a walking stick for a short period.

"My classmates were a source of immense support, taking turns to help me by holding onto my armpits and hoisting me up when I struggled to walk."

Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer - Class reunion
In 2017, Dennis organised a class reunion for his classmates from Saint Joseph’s Institution class of ’78 at Sentosa.
Credit: Dennis Kweh
Fighting spirit
But Dennis made up for it by qualifying for the honours year; another feather in his cap.
While pursuing his honours degree in sociology, Dennis’s visual impairment took a turn for the worse.

"Reading became a struggle. But my university classmates rallied around me. One thoughtful classmate recorded lectures so I could follow aurally. To my surprise, I found that auditory learning helped me retain information better. My certified legal blindness made me study harder to ace my honours year. Later, I did post-graduate studies for my librarianship."

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Dennis having lunch with his university classmates.
Credit: Dennis Kweh

"These moments remind me that setbacks often pave the way for unexpected strengths."

Determined Dennis was a victor again. At about this time, he started using a motorised wheelchair.
Dennis Kweh setting a wheelchair marathon record
It wasn’t just the friends at school and university that made a difference in Dennis’ life.
In April 2009, Dennis set his sights on raising funds for children in the Cerebral Palsy Alliance Singapore (CPAS), the former Spastic Children’s Association of Singapore in Pasir Ris. To do this, he chose to complete a 200- km wheelchair marathon (That’s going from East to West of Singapore four times).
But there were setbacks. His application to set the record was rejected due to safety reasons. Luckily, a volunteer came to his aid.

"Dr Ang Wei Tech, an engineering professor and inventor, came to my aid by making the first locally assembled motorised wheelchair. He kept the cost low to ensure that we could maximise the amount raised for charity. It was below $1,000."

The actual marathon was across three days, with the heat being one of the challenges faced for Dennis. He also had to cover 92km on his first day to ensure he could complete the total 200km.
However, the community spirit was very active then as well.

"Other volunteers came to my aid too, by running with me. I was with runners from 8am to 11 pm on the roads over three days."

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Dennis, flanked by Dr Tan Jit Seng and his wife, at the 200km wheelchair marathon.
Credit: Dr Tan Jit Seng
Another friend, Dr Tan Jit Seng, stepped up. He stayed with Dennis to check his blood pressure and hydration levels to ensure that Dennis would not get heat stroke from 35 deg C temperatures.

"Those were some of the best three days of my life. And yes, the marathon raised a significant sum, $100,000, for the Cerebral Palsy Alliance Singapore (CPAS)."

Being independent
Dennis’ steely determination manifests itself in other areas of his life. Dennis, his brother and mother lived together in his growing up years.
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Dennis lunching with his brother (left) and family.
Credit: Dennis Kweh
Dennis then applied and moved into a Build-to-Order (BTO) HDB flat as a single.
He is fiercely independent.
Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer - Home fittings
Dennis made some modifications to his bathroom like installing a shower chair and grab bar, to ensure ease of movement.

"I love the simple things in life — like looking after the fish in my aquarium, cooking and listening to music. See, I bought a Yamaha keyboard and have a new challenge: to teach myself to play it."

Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer - Enjoy music with his classmates
With a strong love for music, Dennis enjoys playing with his classmates.
Credit: Dennis Kweh
But in 2024, Dennis had a rude shock.
First, he fell at home in March.

"I was hospitalised for some time. Fortunately, when I fell, I had my phone with me, and I called two friends for help. When they came, I struggled to the door and managed to use my walking stick to help them open the door. After this incident, I decided that a digital lock would serve me better, because I could programme it so that others could get in."

Two months later, there was another accident at home. Dennis was on his day off from work. As he was transferring from his wheelchair to his walker, he slipped and landed on the floor. He stayed there for 24 hours as his phone was nowhere near him. He was very embarrassed as he had soiled himself while waiting for help for a whole day.
Fortunately, his colleagues called the police when he did not show up for work nor pick up his calls. A relieved Dennis shouted out the password to his digital lock when the police were about to knock his door down.
In October 2024, Dennis had his third fall. This time, he fractured a leg and had to be hospitalised for two months at a community hospital in Jurong. With three falls within a year, Dennis realised that some lifestyle changes needed to be made for his safety.
Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer - Dr Tan Jit Seng visiting Dennis in the hospital
Dr Tan Jit Seng visiting Dennis in the hospital when he fractured his leg in 2024.
Credit: Dennis Kweh
Now home, Dennis is being taken care of by a domestic helper, paid for with ElderShield subsidies.
Dennis Kweh: The Unstoppable Spirit of A Wheelchair Paraplegic Adventurer - Dennis and his Burmese domestic helper
Dennis with Khin, whom he hired after fracturing his leg in his recent fall and requiring support for daily activities at home.

"Although independence is important, I am very grateful to have Khin my Burmese domestic helper to assist me at this time. She is a good cook too."

Dennis acknowledges that it’s tough to deal with the realities of ageing.

"I was a little depressed about being bedridden for a long time. But recently, I saw a friend who went through a serious hip fracture and fully recovered. Suddenly, my situation does not look so dire anymore. One must always look on the bright side of life."

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On a hoist to transfer between bed and wheelchair while recovering from his leg fracture.
Credit: Dennis Kweh
The doctor recently reviewed Dennis’ healing and started him on the next stage of recovery. He is to place 10 percent of his weight on his toe (with the other leg supporting) while transferring from bed to wheelchair. Baby steps.
So how is this new leg of Dennis’ journey going to pan out?

"I do think of bigger questions like the existential meaning of my life. I know a spiritual anchor is important. One way to have it is through reading inspiring books. The lessons learnt from such books give the benefits of hindsight. The 'what ifs' give way to 'why nots.' This spurs us on to do things beyond our comfort zone."

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