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Mountaineer David Lim, Leader Of S’pore’s 1st Everest Expedition, Talks About Letting Go In Retirement

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Mountaineer David Lim, Leader Of S’pore’s 1st Everest Expedition, Talks About Letting Go In Retirement
Credit: Reader's Digest (Right)
Mountaineer David Lim considers himself to be in a state of “permanent semi-retirement”.
At 59, David can reflect on having been the leader of Singapore’s first Mount Everest expedition. He continues to keep active, conducting leadership seminars, giving motivational talks and tackling alpine slopes as he’s done for the past four decades.
But with a flavour and attitude tinged by the freedom that comes with living in one’s golden years.
“I don’t need to take crap anymore,” says David candidly.

“Also, I’ve learned to just let things go – that was hard initially in the old days, as I always had the attitude of chiong ah ("to give it one's all" in Hokkien dialect)."

David Faces Everest
David has accomplished 60 alpine ascents in his career, but is most famous for having led Singapore’s first expedition to Mount Everest in 1998, which successfully placed two of its members on the summit (though he himself missed out due to a strained back).
A week after returning to Singapore, the climber and law degree holder from Cambridge University faced a new challenge: Guillain-Barre Syndrome, a rare neurological disorder resulting in rapid-onset muscle weakness as the immune system mistakenly attacks one’s peripheral nervous system.
Paralysed from the eyes down, he spent the next six months in hospital, emerging with both legs and one hand partially disabled.
But David is not one to be deterred. He rebuilt his strength from the ground up, chiong-ing his way back to the world’s tallest mountain yet again in 2001.
Though the summit remained out of reach once again due to heavy winds, his inspiring comeback story earned him a cover on the August edition of Reader’s Digest that year.
Everest ended up being a key part of David’s branding when he pivoted from a career in the media industry to motivational speaking and corporate leadership coaching in 1999.
His company, Everest Motivation Team, delivered presentations and conducted programmes in more than 34 countries worldwide over the next two decades.
He is also the first Singaporean to designated as a Certified Speaking Professional by the Global Speakers Federation.
Letting go
While David used to do around 50 talks a year, he’s halved that to around 25 now that he’s semi-retired.

"Any less than that, and you get rusty. Your timing and delivery will get a little off,” he says. “About two a month is just enough for me to stay current and on top of the game."

Mountaineer David Lim, Leader Of S’pore’s 1st Everest Expedition, Talks About Letting Go In Retirement - Letting go
That said, the extra time he freed up quickly went into new activities.
“For retirees, hopefully, you are replacing the time you used to spend on work with different things like learning new skills or a new language,” he adds.
One way David enjoyed his newfound freedom (and making full use of the Covid Circuit Breaker time) was refurbishing a 35-year-old Peugeot 205 CTI, which he shipped to Singapore from the United Kingdom.
Mountaineer David Lim, Leader Of S’pore’s 1st Everest Expedition, Talks About Letting Go In Retirement - Travel
Semi-retirement also gave him the time to return to the alpine slopes, but in a different way: over the last few years, his outdoor activity of choice has been ski mountaineering, which involves alternately climbing and skiing down slopes outside the confines of a ski resort.
It’s been an educational journey. “Not in terms of learning how to ski – I’ve known how to ski for the last 30 years – but in fixing my own skis,” says David.

"In Singapore, there are no professional shops dedicated to skiing. There are some for snowboarding, but not for skiing. Because of my disability, I have to make some modifications to the skis, and that has all been part of the learning process over the last four years."

His advice for any silver looking to get into skiing, or outdoor sports in general?
On the recent Everest cases
This is a mantra that the author and mountaineer repeats throughout his interview with SilverStreak. He references it again when we ask for his take on Mount Everest — a mountain that he’s ultimately yet to summit.

“The quality of the experience counts more than the quality of the achievement when it comes to climbing.”

That is an ethos he hopes to see more for climbers, especially of the world’s tallest mountain, whose climbing season thus far has been marred with incidents close to home.
This includes the tragic disappearance of Singaporean mountaineer Shrinivas Sainis Dattatraya, who successfully summited the peak on 19 May; as well as the more recent case of a Malaysian climber who failed to acknowledge the Nepalese sherpa that hauled him down from the ‘death zone’ (above 8,000m), saving his life.

"In the case of the Singaporean climber, he clearly took a very sensible, very measured approach. He has a good record of climbing smaller peaks over the last five or six years. But these things happen. Everest is like that."

However, David does not abide by mountain climbers who attempt to force their way up Mount Everest in search of “that picture on the summit”.
With mountain climbing, it is generally accepted that there is some sort of effort and skill necessary.
But there are people who will hire three or four sherpas to carry everything, or using a helicopter to fly loads up midway.
You are removing a lot of the experience that makes mountaineering what it is. People are enamoured with winning the trophy, rather than winning a wonderful experience.
Mountaineer David Lim, Leader Of S’pore’s 1st Everest Expedition, Talks About Letting Go In Retirement - Manang
David during a virgin ascent in Manang, a town in Nepal, circa 2016.

"I've climbed on remote mountains without guides, with only a small group of trusted friends. We know that when we succeed, it is through a combination of our own abilities, our own judgement, our own efforts, and luck.

"Be accountable for the success of your own climb. Don’t force others to give up on their own climbs to come and save your butt."

His next big adventure
David has also been busy with his next big adventure: Setting up an endowment fund which will make “donations or grants to a charity of my choice from the income it derives” — mainly persons with disabilities, or animal welfare.

"I’ve had a great life, and so I’m now thinking of how to pay it forward. At my age, I’m thinking about legacy, or what I’m going to leave behind."

Though David says retirement is not on the cards anytime soon, he expects that his permanent semi-retired life will eventually downshift into “less semi, more retired” as the years go by. Planning how to wind down is something he advises for every silver reaching their golden years.

"You should consider semi-retirement as a possible option, if your skills and workplace allow it.

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